There is a simple answer to this question.And that is “search” for it.
Now what does this “search” means?
It means look at every corner,in every way possible,go here and there,
read relevant books,ask people who are already ahead of you,even ask
to a child sometimes if needed. Because childrens are straight forward
Go to you religious scriptures,go to a totally unfamiliar place, meet
strangers,try this way that way,tirelessly keep moving like ants.
Until you get your you want.
So it’s simple,it may not be easy but it simple.
He who found must have been searching relentlessly, gone through
these laborious process.
It is inevitable.
So right away start searching.
Success remains there. That’s the secret indeed.